How many times we say “leave it,you won’t understand” or “i hope you understand”. A simple four-six word phrase expressing the utter desire to have a companionship and support of the other person.
It’s not necessary for anyone to make people do understand what their actions or words really meant but main problem arises when they are misunderstand. As they say:
We must learn to regard people less in the light of what they do or omit to do, and more in the light of what they suffer.
May be what we listen and see,no matter if we are listening from the person itself, it depends on us how we see it and how we understand the situation.
When people say, ” i hope you understand ” they really want the other person to know how they were feeling and not judge them like most people do. When people say, “you’ll understand when it’ll come to you” they don’t want you to suffer what they did but just want you to know that it’s not nice to judge them from the place you see them.
And then you meet certain people who actually went through all the things as you did and they completely understand you but still have a different perspective than yours. May be because they reacted differently and have different mindsets.
Understanding the other person doesn’t mean you have to feel the same way,it just simply means know what they want you to without judging them.
You can never expect anyone in this world to understand you completely but yourself.